The Texas Youth Action Network (TYAN) urges adults working with youth as mentors, educators, and coaches to recognize the signs and act using resources highlighted in this article. 

Recognizing the Signs 

Youth may not openly disclose their experiences, but behavioral and emotional indicators often reveal trauma. According to the National Children’s Alliance signs to watch for may include: 

• Changes in behavior. 

• Fear of going home. 

• Changes in eating or sleeping habits. 

• Academic decline or trouble concentrating; overall changes in school performance.  

• Injuries or even physical complaints without medical cause. 

• Risk-taking behaviors or inappropriate sexual behaviors. 

Step-by-Step Guide for Trusted Adults 

While TYAN is not a subject matter expert in domestic violence prevention, we have compiled some tips from those that are.  

Step 1: Recognize the Signs 

Be alert to behavioral, emotional, and physical indicators. Use the Texas Education Agency’s Child Abuse Prevention Overview to train staff on recognizing abuse and trauma signs. 

Step 2: Create a Safe and Supportive Environment 

Build trust through empathy and confidentiality. Avoid pushing for disclosure. Use trauma-informed language and posture. Refer to the TCFV Youth & Adult Allies toolkit and resources for conversation starters. 

Step 3: Respond with Care 

If a youth discloses or you suspect exposure, listen calmly, and validate their feelings. Avoid making promises you cannot keep. Use Futures Without Violence’s Protective Factors Guide to build resilience. 

Step 4: Report When Required 

In Texas, all adults must report suspected child abuse or neglect within 24 hours. Call 1-800-252-5400 or visit txabusehotline.org. Use DFPS Domestic Violence Information to understand reporting procedures. 

Step 5: Connect to Resources 

Refer youth and families to shelters, counseling, and legal aid. Use the TCFV Service Directory to find local support services. 

Step 6: Collaborate with Schools and Agencies 

Work with school counselors and child welfare professionals. Develop safety plans and ensure access to meals and mental health support. Use the TEA Children and Youth Experiencing Homelessness guide. 

Step 7: Continue Learning and Advocating 

Attend trauma-informed care training and share awareness materials that will encourage youth leadership. Use DVAM Campaign Resources, TYAN’s resource database found on the TYAN website, and our Youth Development Professional Training Series (YDTS) course catalog found within Texas A&M University’s Continuing and Professional Education platform to educate yourself further. Within our course catalog, the units labeled YDTS are open to all, and we encourage our readers to check out the module on Youth Policy and Risk Management as they include information on bullying and organizational policies that most closely relate to the topic of youth exposed to violence. 

TYAN Community Partner Resource Spotlight 

The Abuse Is Real (AIR) Project is a federally registered 501c3 charitable organization with a mission to create stronger communities by fostering resilience, creativity, and life skills for future generations; today and tomorrow. The AIR Project was born from personal experiences of abuse, violence, and the subsequent mental trauma that too often affects historically marginalized communities and now facilitates projects that aim to fill gaps within communities of color by providing resources, support, and opportunities that might not otherwise be available. For example: 

Soles For AIR: https://www.abuseisreal.com/solesforair 

AIR C.A.R.E. Garden 

AIR Bags of Love 

AIR Club 

Take a stand with AIR Project today by visiting their website to learn more and get connected! Follow this link to their homepage, https://www.abuseisreal.com/. 

Conclusion 

Youth exposed to domestic violence need trusted adults who recognize the signs and respond with care. TYAN encourages all adults working with youth to use available resources and act this October and beyond. 

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